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What matters most to you?

How the deck is built and scored

Three questions set your profile: what matters most to you (taxes, schools, safety, cost of living, climate or politics), the kind of place you want (city, suburbs, small town or rural) and your situation. Every one of the 50 states is then scored against that profile from its own figures. A taxes profile gives full marks to a state with no income tax and fewer as the top rate climbs; a schools profile uses the Education Week K-12 rank; safety uses the FBI violent crime rate; cost of living uses the index where 100 is the national average; climate uses annual sunny days; politics uses the size of the 2024 presidential margin. The setting adds points from the state's urban population share, and the situation adds points for things like exempting Social Security or cheap infant care.

The deck holds eleven cards: the five states that score highest for you, three drawn at random from the middle of the ranking, and three from the bottom, shuffled so you cannot tell which is which. Each card shows the figures behind its score, so a swipe is a judgment on the numbers, and the states you kept are listed at the end as your matches, in the order they came up. State figures were last checked 2026-09-14 (tax rates are tax year 2026); the comparison pages put any two states side by side afterward.

Your Priorities

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Quick Profiles

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Annual Income

$150K

Affects effective income tax rate

$0$500K$5M+

Retirement Savings

$0

Affects pension and SS tax burden

None$500K$10M+

Social Security

None

Annual Social Security benefit

None$150K/yr

My Property Is Worth

$400K

Affects property tax burden

Tax burden ↓$1M$50M+

Home Buying Budget

$400K

Compared to state median home price

Hard to find$250K$5M+

Monthly Rent Budget

Don't care

Compared to state median 2BR rent

Don't care$10K/mo

Job Market

Don't care

State unemployment and job growth

Don't careHot market

Airport Access

Don't care

Direct flight destinations from state hubs

Don't careMust have hub

City vs Country

Mid-size city

% urban population

Deep countryBig city

Sunshine

Don't care

Annual sunny days per state

Don't careMax sunshine

Food Scene

Don't care

Restaurants per 100K residents

Don't careWorld-class

Political Preference

Neutral

State's political lean

LiberalConservative

Gun Laws

Neutral

State gun law grade (Giffords)

Gun Control2A Freedom

Abortion Access

Neutral

State abortion access policy

Pro-ChoiceNeutralPro-Life

Community

None

Congregations per 100K residents

AvoidDon't careSeek

Sports & Entertainment

Don't care

Pro sports teams and major venues

Don't careMust have pro teams

Cannabis Laws

Neutral

State cannabis legality

Prefer LegalNeutralPrefer Prohibition

Retiree Community

Neutral

% population 65+ (Census)

Young areaRetirement-heavy

Dating Market

Neutral

% adults never-married (Census)

Singles sceneFamily community

Safety / Low Crime

Don't care

Violent crime rate per 100K (FBI)

Don't careVery safe

School Quality

Don't care

K-12 rank (Education Week)

Don't careTop-ranked

Healthcare Access

Don't care

Healthcare system rank (Commonwealth Fund)

Don't careTop-ranked

Childcare Affordability

Don't care

Cost of living proxy for childcare affordability

Don't careMust be affordable